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Why Awareness Alone Won’t Change Your Life (and What Will)
Many professionals get stuck in the loop of awareness: seeing the patterns, naming what’s wrong, but never moving forward. Research shows that while 95% of people believe they’re self-aware, only 10–15% truly are. Awareness is valuable, but without action, nothing shifts. This blog explores why awareness alone won’t change your life and what will.
Monica Kalra
Aug 30, 20252 min read


It’s Not Burnout. It’s the Silent Crisis.
Burnout is loud. Collapse is obvious.
But the bigger danger isn’t burnout, it’s the silent crisis. The quiet drip of energy loss that leaves professionals looking “fine” on the outside, but flat on the inside. This blog explores why high-functioning isn’t the same as high-living, and how to spot the silent leaks before they drain your clarity, confidence, and aliveness.
Monica Kalra
Aug 23, 20252 min read


The Tiredness That No Holiday Can Fix
Not all tiredness can be fixed with sleep or a holiday. Discover the hidden exhaustion that lingers, and the small shifts that bring back real energy.
Monica Kalra
Aug 16, 20252 min read


What if You’re Not Indecisive?
Ever found yourself frozen in a moment, not because you don’t care, but because everything feels like too much?
This blog explores why brilliant women often mistake pressure for indecision, and how carrying too many expectations can drown out your own voice. You’ll discover why your clarity isn’t gone, it’s just been buried under the noise, and a simple way to start hearing yourself again.
Monica Kalra
Aug 9, 20253 min read


Why You Feel Disconnected at Work And What To Do About It
You’re still showing up. Still performing. But something feels off, like the work no longer fits who you are.
This blog explores the disconnection many professionals feel when they’ve outgrown a role that once felt right and what to do when you’re no longer connected to what you do.
Monica Kalra
Aug 2, 20252 min read


We Are the Barriers to Our Own Brilliance
You’re not stuck because something’s wrong with you. You’re stuck because of the noise you’ve been living inside.
This blog explores how overthinking, nervous system patterns, and outdated mental loops quietly block our growth and what to do when you’re ready to move forward with clarity.
Monica Kalra
Jul 27, 20253 min read


When You’ve Outgrown the Version of You
What if the version of you who chose this life isn’t the one you're living it anymore? This blog explores what happens when you outgrow your old self and how to start listening to who you’re becoming.
Monica Kalra
Jul 13, 20253 min read


When the Apology Never Comes: Healing Without Closure
This blog is for the woman still waiting for an apology and slowly realising that her healing can’t depend on someone else’s remorse.
She can still find peace. Even without the words she deserved to hear.
Monica Kalra
Jul 6, 20253 min read


When Women Cheat and He’s the One Betrayed
We don’t talk enough about when women cheat. Not for thrill, but for something deeper; to feel seen, to feel alive. This isn’t a story of scandal. It’s a story of silence, disconnection, and the parts of us we abandon long before we ever leave the relationship.
Monica Kalra
Jun 28, 20253 min read


How Future Faking Keeps Women Trapped in Long-Term Relationships
You don’t need yelling or cheating to feel broken in a relationship. Sometimes, it’s the promises - the ones that keep you hoping, waiting, staying.
This blog unpacks how future faking keeps women stuck for years…
and what it really means when change only comes after you threaten to leave.
Monica Kalra
Jun 21, 20253 min read


When You Become the Mum in the Relationship And He Becomes the Child
You stopped feeling like his partner and started feeling like his mum. This is the silent heartbreak no one talks about - until now.
Monica Kalra
Jun 15, 20253 min read


"Why Didn't I Leave Sooner?" - A Question That Haunts Many
“Why didn’t I leave sooner?”
It’s the question so many women ask after the end of a long marriage, especially in midlife.
This blog is for every woman who stayed for the family, for the kids, for survival… and is now grieving the years she can’t get back.
You didn’t fail. You adapted. And it’s not too late to reclaim yourself.
Monica Kalra
Jun 8, 20253 min read


When You’re Afraid to Admit Something’s Wrong in Your Relationship
Feeling confused in your relationship but unsure why? These are the silent signs you're not just unhappy, you're slowly disappearing. Here's what no one tells you about the ‘in-between’ space.
Monica Kalra
Jun 1, 20253 min read


Overthinking After Divorce
Why do you overthink after a divorce? This blog unpacks the science behind overthinking and offers simple tools to help you feel safe, grounded, and clear again.
Monica Kalra
May 25, 20253 min read


When Giving Too Much Becomes a Form of Self-Abandonment
She was the one who carried it all - the birthdays, the meals, the late-night pep talks. But somewhere along the way, she lost touch with her own voice.
This blog is a gentle reflection on the hidden cost of overgiving, the pain of self-abandonment, and what it takes to come home to yourself again.
Monica Kalra
May 18, 20253 min read


Feeling Alone Even While Still in the Relationship
You’re in the relationship. But you still feel deeply alone. This post speaks to the pain of emotional loneliness and reminds you that your need for connection isn’t too much. It’s human.
Monica Kalra
May 11, 20252 min read


When You Stop Trusting Yourself In A Relationship
What happens when you stop trusting yourself in a relationship? It doesn’t always look dramatic. Often, it’s quiet. A hesitation. A swallowed need. A fear of being too much. This blog explores how self-doubt slowly creates distance in relationships and how healing begins with coming home to your own voice.
Monica Kalra
May 3, 20253 min read


When AI Feels Safer Than People
Explore why digital spaces can feel safer than real connection after emotional heartbreak and how to begin finding your way back to real, human intimacy.
Monica Kalra
Apr 26, 20252 min read


When the Kids Leave: Facing the Silence After Divorce
When the kids leave, whether for the weekend with their other parent or for good, you’re left with a silence that’s heavier than you expected. This post explores the quiet moments after divorce that no one talks about, and offers gentle ways to hold yourself when the house goes still.
Monica Kalra
Apr 20, 20253 min read


When You Don’t Recognise Yourself Anymore
It didn’t happen all at once. She just slowly stopped recognising herself. If you’ve ever felt like you lost your voice or identity in a relationship, this is the gentle truth you’ve been waiting to hear.
Monica Kalra
Apr 13, 20252 min read
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